0010 - How to Become the Master of Your Own Destiny

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Hi there, this is Andrew Smith International Life Coach with a question for you: The question today is “Have you decided what the agenda for your life is?”

Maybe I’m going to sound a bit sure of myself here, but I know you need a Life Coach! How am I so sure? Well, that’s because I believe that everyone including me needs a Life Coach! Every one of us needs someone to be on our side, totally supportive and desirous for us to get what we want out of our lives.

Best friends can fulfill such a role, but often they often don’t have the knowledge of how to help and they’re too bothered with getting their own stuff sorted out, to be of any real help.

Those old chestnut questions of who’s right, who’s wrong, the gray areas are all conjecture and irrelevant! By focusing your attention on you, what it is that you want out of your life; what you want to achieve, and what you want to be remembered for and your purpose in being here. You can then start to take control and work towards your own goals instead of working for someone else’s; which you most surely are doing, if you don’t have your own agenda for your life!

Like everybody else I get paid for the work that I do and although we all like to think we make some kind of a contribution to society; by helping people to self actualize and to bring out their talents, I believe that the Life Coach earns every penny he or she gets!

For example did you know that Adolf Hitler wanted to be an artist? If only his tutor had encouraged him to paint, told him he was good at it instead of telling him he was hopeless at portraits or landscapes; we may be admiring today the great contribution Hitler made to the world of art, rather than having to remember the tragedy that was the Third Reich?

You might say that you’re beyond help; some people tell me that they are! I don’t believe them, but if you believe you are beyond help, then I realize that for you it’s true! I also went through a very negative phase in my life. when I look back it I see it was because I lacked both variety and certainty in my life, didn’t feel significant or loved, and I felt that I wasn’t growing or making a contribution.

When you know what the agenda for your life is you can start taking steps, however small to getting your needs fulfilled and leaving the sadness behind.

I hope that I’ve given you food for thought and if you’d like to speak to me all you have to do is either email me at info@andrewsmithlifecoach.com or call me now on 0800 085 8056 that’s if you’re in the UK or Internationally on +44 114 251 4951 and we can arrange the best time and date for you to experience your own free Life Coaching session.

You’ll be interested to know that the Free Stuff page of my website www.andrewsmithlifecoach.com has this and other inspiring blogs available for you to download and don’t forget to claim the free report “The Four Keys to Your Personal Success.” It’s been great talking to you today. This is Andrew Smith signing off; I hope to be speaking to you again soon, bye for now!